NOTE to JJ: Creative people are not necessarily intelligent

Dear friend,

Creativity does not necessarily equate to intelligence.

I had an unusual conversation with a gay friend who has been involved in professional creative projects. After reading this conversation I had with him, you'll understand why I had to end my friendship with him. I simply can't continue relationships with people whose irrationality becomes evident, even if it takes time to surface. That's why I've chosen to distance myself from such individuals including him.

Here's the conversation:

HE: "I'm completely fed up with my country and its people. I'm begging you, if there's any way, please help me escape this place of corrupt leaders and citizens."

ME: "I wish I could, but this is far too complicated for me to get involved in, and I lack the necessary funds. It's much more than just a short holiday."

HE: "Okay, worth a try. Let me know if you change your mind."

So, what exactly is my problem with him in this situation?
 
My issue with him is not that I chose not to help, but that I simply couldn't. I don't have the financial means to assist anyone in migrating to another country, as it's an expensive and complex process.

I'm stunned that he brought up the idea of me changing my mind about helping him. Where's the logic in that? I clearly told him I don't have the money, which should have made it obvious that, no matter how much I'd like to help, I simply can't. So, the notion of me changing my mind shouldn't have even been a factor—it was never about a choice, but about my financial limitations.

I've made the decision to never communicate with him again and to permanently end our friendship.

Life is too short to be spent around negativity, so it's best to steer clear of toxic people and environments.

Sincerely,
X

Seems there is good reason to continue blogging...

As I mentioned before, there were many times when me and my friends pondered whether there is any point to continue this old-fashioned blogging in the age of social media.

But after reading Maldives' so-called "ex-gay" blogger Ismail Khilath Rasheed's recent blogpost regarding why there is good reason to continue blogging, I and my friends are convinced that we too need to continue blogging the old-fashioned way. READ MALDIVES' JOURNALIST AND BLOGGER ISMAIL KHILATH RASHEED'S FULL BLOGPOST ABOUT THIS ISSUE HERE.

Chemsex: a silent LGBT+ crisis

Across the country, men are being hospitalised and dying after using drugs to enhance sex. Despite this, it's being called a silent crisis - it's not being talked about and the NHS hasn't gathered much data on it. It's called chemsex - but why is so little known about it? Sam Leader and social psychologist Marc Svensson tell I'm Lucy Watson and this is what you need to know.

WATCH: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSCu8meBImQ

"Chemsex" refers to the practice of using specific drugs to facilitate or enhance sexual activity, particularly within some communities of men who have sex with men (MSM). 

It often involves the use of:  

- Methamphetamine (crystal meth): A powerful stimulant.  
- Mephedrone (meph, drone): Another stimulant.  
- GHB/GBL (G): A depressant.    

Key points to understand about chemsex:

It's characterized by the use of these drugs in a sexual context, sometimes leading to prolonged sexual encounters with multiple partners.   

It carries significant health risks, including:

- Increased risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs).  
- Mental health issues.  
- Overdose.  
- Drug dependency.  
- Risks associated with sharing needles when drugs are injected.  
- It can lead to issues surrounding consent.  
- It can negatively impact a person's social and work life.  

It's important to be aware of the potential dangers associated with chemsex and to seek support if needed.

Gay and Palestinian

WATCH: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opE2SyxeHo8

ESSAY: Am I a voyeur?

My favorite way to cum is into the guy's mouth. Perhaps this is because I particularly like the guy to cum into my mouth, too.

I have cummed many times in guys' asses and enjoyed the vision of my cum oozing out of their buttholes. I am not sure why this happens. Maybe the rectum is tight and therefore can't accommodate any cum at all since the anus gets puckered up when there is no more cock inside it.

There are some guys who don't like to taste or swallow cum. It's their sexual condition I guess.

And then there're guys who are kinky enough to swallow their own cum.

That said, I have some friends who routinely visit me just to enjoy me stroking their dicks to ejaculate. They don't seek a blowjob. I guess I understand that a "foreign object" (like my hands) rubbing their cocks can arouse them leading to orgasm.

Then there are those who do the same but when they reach the point of no return at the last minute, they forcefully grab my head and perversely thrust their cock into my mouth, vigorously masturbate their dicks while performing something similar to face-fucking at the behest of some mysterious animal instinct, and making sure their cock is in my mouth until they ejaculate the last drop of their cum into my throat.

Some guys would ask me beforehand whether I am okay with them shooting their hot load into my mouth. That's nice and respectful and I appreciate it. Others wouldn't be so considerate but just shoot all their sperm into my gut without bothering to know beforehand if I like or don't like the idea of drinking "disgusting" bodily fluids, haha! Just kidding. Semen is far from disgusting, I can attest from my own long-term experience. It is edible according to science. I guess those guys just assume that being gay is about enjoying every aspect of gay sex including swallowing semen. Perhaps I should tell them my favorite drink/beverage is men's cum.

It's interesting to know all these kinds of gay men exist with all kinds of tastes. Hopefully one day I will try to convince one of my friends to masturbate in front of me without me being in any kind of physical contact with them at all. Should be a very arousing sight 😋 But I guess that makes me a voyeur. LOL.

What is the male or masculine mystique?

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Again we forgot about this blog's anniversary! And in this age of social media, should we keep updating this old-fashioned blog anymore?

We forgot about our first anniversary too! And now the second anniversary also!! I and my friends started this blog two years ago on the 6th of March.

This time around me and my friends who operate this blog (and our associated blogs which you can access from my profile page) are facing some "issues" we gotta solve. They are:

1) In this age of social media, is this blog relevant anymore? You, our beloved visitors, get access to queer news sometimes faster than I and my friends, who may be involved with other things. For example, it took us some time to get updated about the murder of the first openly gay Muslim Imam, Muhsin Hendricks.

2) The second "issue" is, as now indicated by the text on the header of this blog, we have decided to allow images of male nudity and gay men's sexuality if they conform to socially accepted standards of Western societies. I guess that doesn't change the nature of this blog which will still remain as a NSFW (Not Safe For Work) blog. We know that, as always, this means you can enter this blog only during times of your privacy and that was our original intent too. We never meant anyone to access this blog unless they were alone or were in a place or circumstance of privacy.

As we stated earlier, even if there is a long interval (like February 2025 when we didn't post even a single thing on this blog), based on the advice of a straight male friend, we aim to keep updating this blog just for the record - and for those who still may enjoy the kind of stuff I and my gay and queer friends post on this blog. And needless to say, it's exciting for me and my friends to share our real life queer experiences through Essays, Queer Observations, and Queer Erotica or short or long or serial stories which are sometimes wholly true and sometimes partly true and sometimes inspired by real life gay encounters, some of them sexual in nature.

So, hugs and kisses to all followers of this blog including all newcomers and those who have faithfully been visiting this blog over the past two years. Two years, sometimes, do feel like a looong time! Mwah!!

And just as a gentle reminder to myself, my friends, and others, Millennials and others who followed that generation are lucky in so many ways because they had the Internet and therefore had information about LGBTQIA+ issues to address their personal concerns. Here's why that's important:

Millennial generation is generally defined as those born between 1981 and 1996. The internet began its widespread adoption during the formative years of millennials. They witnessed and participated in the evolution of the internet, from early dial-up connections to the rise of broadband and mobile internet.  

Millennials experienced the emergence of the World Wide Web, email, instant messaging, and early social media platforms. They were at the forefront of the digital revolution, adapting to and shaping the online world. They have a very large role in the growth of social media. Therefore, it's accurate to say that internet access was a defining characteristic of the millennial generation.

Cheers and peace,
XX JJ et al.

Western censorship of male nudity and gay men's sexuality explained: a pictorial guide that will be constantly updated with continued research / পুরুষ নগ্নতা এবং সমকামী পুরুষদের যৌনতার উপর পশ্চিমা সেন্সরশিপ ব্যাখ্যা করা হয়েছে: একটি চিত্রনির্দেশিকা যা ক্রমাগত গবেষণার মাধ্যমে আপডেট করা হবে। / Puruṣa nagnatā ēbaṁ samakāmī puruṣadēra yaunatāra upara paścimā sēnsaraśipa byākhyā karā haẏēchē: Ēkaṭi citranirdēśikā yā kramāgata gabēṣaṇāra mādhyamē āpaḍēṭa karā habē. / पुरुष नग्नता और समलैंगिक पुरुषों की कामुकता पर पश्चिमी सेंसरशिप की व्याख्या: एक सचित्र मार्गदर्शिका जिसे निरंतर शोध के साथ अद्यतन किया जाएगा / purush nagnata aur samalaingik purushon kee kaamukata par pashchimee sensaraship kee vyaakhya: ek sachitr maargadarshika jise nirantar shodh ke saath adyatan kiya jaega / ހުޅަނގުގެ ފިރިހެނުންގެ ބަރަހަނާކަމާއި ގޭ ފިރިހެނުންގެ ޖިންސީ ގުޅުން ހިންގުމުގެ ސެންސަރު ކުރުމުން ކިޔައިދިނީ: ދިރާސާތައް ކުރިއަށް ގެންދިއުމާއެކު މެދުނުކެނޑި އަޕްޑޭޓް ކުރެވޭނެ ތަސްވީރީ ގައިޑެކެވެ

এই প্রকল্পটি প্রয়োজনীয় হয়েছে কারণ এই সপ্তাহে "পুরুষ কী?" ব্লগে আমি এবং আমার বন্ধুরা যে পরিবর্তনগুলি বাস্তবায়ন করতে শুরু করেছি তাতে কিছু দর্শক হঠাৎ করেই হতবাক হয়ে গেছেন। এটি এই ব্লগে পুরুষ নগ্নতা, সমকামী এবং সমকামী পুরুষদের যৌনতা সেন্সরশিপ বা অনুমোদনের ক্ষেত্রে পশ্চিমা মান গ্রহণ করার আমাদের ইচ্ছার সাথে সম্পর্কিত, পাশাপাশি আমার ন্যুড মেন আর্ট ব্লগে নগ্ন পুরুষ এবং সমকামী যৌনতার স্পষ্ট ছবিও রয়েছে, যা কিছু দর্শক বলে যে তাদের জন্য প্রচুর মজা এবং বিনোদন।

আমরা জানি যে এখন এর অর্থ হল আপনি কেবল আপনার গোপনীয়তার সময়কালে এই ব্লগে প্রবেশ করতে পারেন তবে এটি আমাদের মূল উদ্দেশ্যও ছিল। আমরা কখনও চাইনি যে কেউ এই ব্লগে প্রবেশ করুক যদি না তারা একা থাকে বা গোপনীয়তার কোনও জায়গা বা পরিস্থিতিতে থাকে।

আমরা এই সপ্তাহে এই ব্লগের হেডারের শিরোনামের টেক্সটে এটি ব্যাখ্যা করেছি।

উদাহরণস্বরূপ, নীচের ছবিটি নেওয়া যাক। একটি সংস্করণ সেন্সর করা হয়নি যখন অন্যটি সেন্সর করা হয়েছে। প্রশ্ন হল, ছবিটি কি সেন্সর করা উচিত? উত্তরটি হল 'না'! ছবিটিতে কোনও ভুল নেই, এমন কিছু নেই যা সেন্সর করার যোগ্য। এটি এমন একজন পুরুষকে দেখায় যে সে গর্বের সাথে তার বিশাল মোরগ প্রদর্শন করে, এমনকি যদি তার মতো সম্পদশালী নয় এমন পুরুষদেরও তাদের গড় আকারের বা ছোট মোরগ উদযাপন করার সমান অধিকার থাকে।

প্রদর্শনীকারী হোক বা না হোক, কিছু পুরুষ তাদের 'জন্মদিনের স্যুট' পরে তাদের নগ্নতা প্রদর্শন করতে স্বাচ্ছন্দ্য বোধ করে এবং তাদের জনসাধারণের সামনে নিজেদের নগ্ন দেখানোর এবং মানব সভ্যতার বাকি অংশের সাথে তাদের 'মুকুট রত্ন' দেখার স্বাভাবিক অধিকার রয়েছে।

কিছু বিচক্ষণ ব্যক্তিদের তথাকথিত যুক্তি হল যে শিশ্ন প্রদর্শন করা ঠিক কারণ এটি যৌন নয়, তবে এই ধরণের ক্ষেত্রে, এই ব্যক্তি তার ঝুলন্ত লিঙ্গের মোট দৈর্ঘ্য সম্পূর্ণরূপে উত্থান না করে প্রদর্শন করতে পারে না।

এবং যাইহোক, ছবির নান্দনিক এবং শৈল্পিক মূল্য ধরা পড়েছে কারণ তার হাত তার সম্পূর্ণ খাড়া সদস্যের খাঁজে থাকা শক্ত আঁকড়ে ধরে তার গর্বকে পরিপূরক করে। তাছাড়া, তার মুখের গর্বিত বহিঃপ্রকাশ দেখুন, যদিও ভেতরে ভেতরে সে যৌন উত্তেজনা অনুভব করছে, যা মোটেও সমস্যা নয় কারণ যৌন আকাঙ্ক্ষা আমাদের কিছু মানুষের মধ্যে একটি বিবর্তনীয় প্রাকৃতিক আকাঙ্ক্ষা। উপভোগ করুন।

পুনশ্চ: লোকটির প্রাকৃতিকভাবে বিশাল যৌনাঙ্গের প্রতি সত্যিকার অর্থে উপলব্ধি করার জন্য সেন্সরবিহীন সংস্করণটি দেখুন। এবং আপনি দেখতে পাচ্ছেন যে সেন্সরবিহীন সংস্করণটি দৃশ্যত কতটা অপ্রয়োজনীয় এবং বিরক্তিকর।

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Ē'i prakalpaṭi praẏōjanīẏa haẏēchē kāraṇa ē'i saptāhē"puruṣa kī?" Blagē āmi ēbaṁ āmāra bandhurā yē paribartanaguli bāstabāẏana karatē śuru karēchi tātē kichu darśaka haṭhāṯ karē'i hatabāka haẏē gēchēna. Ēṭi ē'i blagē puruṣa nagnatā, samakāmī ēbaṁ samakāmī puruṣadēra yaunatā sēnsaraśipa bā anumōdanēra kṣētrē paścimā māna grahaṇa karāra āmādēra icchāra sāthē samparkita, pāśāpāśi āmāra n'yuḍa mēna ārṭa blagē nagna puruṣa ēbaṁ samakāmī yaunatāra spaṣṭa chabi'ō raẏēchē, yā kichu darśaka balē yē tādēra jan'ya pracura majā ēbaṁ binōdana.

Āmarā jāni yē ēkhana ēra artha hala āpani kēbala āpanāra gōpanīẏatāra samaẏakālē ē'i blagē prabēśa karatē pārēna tabē ēṭi āmādēra mūla uddēśya'ō chila. Āmarā kakhana'ō cā'ini yē kē'u ē'i blagē prabēśa karuka yadi nā tārā ēkā thākē bā gōpanīẏatāra kōna'ō jāẏagā bā paristhititē thākē.

Āmarā ē'i saptāhē ē'i blagēra hēḍārēra śirōnāmēra ṭēksaṭē ēṭi byākhyā karēchi.

Udāharaṇasbarūpa, nīcēra chabiṭi nē'ōẏā yāka. Ēkaṭi sanskaraṇa sēnsara karā haẏani yakhana an'yaṭi sēnsara karā haẏēchē. Praśna hala, chabiṭi ki sēnsara karā ucita? Uttaraṭi hala'nā'! Chabiṭitē kōna'ō bhula nē'i, ēmana kichu nē'i yā sēnsara karāra yōgya. Ēṭi ēmana ēkajana puruṣakē dēkhāẏa yē sē garbēra sāthē tāra biśāla mōraga pradarśana karē, ēmanaki yadi tāra matō sampadaśālī naẏa ēmana puruṣadēra'ō tādēra gaṛa ākārēra bā chōṭa mōraga udayāpana karāra samāna adhikāra thākē.

Pradarśanīkārī hōka bā nā hōka, kichu puruṣa tādēra'janmadinēra syuṭa' parē tādēra nagnatā pradarśana karatē sbācchandya bōdha karē ēbaṁ tādēra janasādhāraṇēra sāmanē nijēdēra nagna dēkhānōra ēbaṁ mānaba sabhyatāra bāki anśēra sāthē tādēra'mukuṭa ratna' dēkhāra sbābhābika adhikāra raẏēchē.

Kichu bicakṣaṇa byaktidēra tathākathita yukti hala yē śiśna pradarśana karā ṭhika kāraṇa ēṭi yauna naẏa, tabē ē'i dharaṇēra kṣētrē, ē'i byakti tāra jhulanta liṅgēra mōṭa dairghya sampūrṇarūpē ut'thāna nā karē pradarśana karatē pārē nā.

Ēbaṁ yā'ihōka, chabira nāndanika ēbaṁ śailpika mūlya dharā paṛēchē kāraṇa tāra hāta tāra sampūrṇa khāṛā sadasyēra khām̐jē thākā śakta ām̐kaṛē dharē tāra garbakē paripūraka karē. Tāchāṛā, tāra mukhēra garbita bahiḥprakāśa dēkhuna, yadi'ō bhētarē bhētarē sē yauna uttējanā anubhaba karachē, yā mōṭē'ō samasyā naẏa kāraṇa yauna ākāṅkṣā āmādēra kichu mānuṣēra madhyē ēkaṭi bibartanīẏa prākr̥tika ākāṅkṣā. Upabhōga karuna.

Punaśca: Lōkaṭira prākr̥tikabhābē biśāla yaunāṅgēra prati satyikāra arthē upalabdhi karāra jan'ya sēnsarabihīna sanskaraṇaṭi dēkhuna. Ēbaṁ āpani dēkhatē pācchēna yē sēnsarabihīna sanskaraṇaṭi dr̥śyata kataṭā apraẏōjanīẏa ēbaṁ biraktikara.

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यह परियोजना इसलिए ज़रूरी थी क्योंकि कुछ आगंतुक अचानक उन बदलावों से अचंभित हो गए थे जिन्हें मैंने और मेरे दोस्तों ने इस सप्ताह इस ब्लॉग "व्हाट इज़ ए मैन?" पर लागू करना शुरू किया था। यह इस ब्लॉग पर पुरुष नग्नता और समलैंगिक पुरुषों की कामुकता को सेंसरशिप या अनुमति देने में पश्चिमी मानकों को अपनाने की हमारी इच्छा के संबंध में है, इसके अलावा मेरे न्यूड मेन आर्ट ब्लॉग पर नग्न पुरुषों और समलैंगिक सेक्स की स्पष्ट छवियों के अलावा, जिसे कुछ आगंतुक कहते हैं कि यह उनके लिए बहुत मज़ेदार और मनोरंजक है।

हम जानते हैं कि अब इसका मतलब है कि आप इस ब्लॉग में केवल अपनी गोपनीयता के समय ही प्रवेश कर सकते हैं, लेकिन यही हमारा मूल इरादा भी था। हमारा कभी भी यह इरादा नहीं था कि कोई भी व्यक्ति इस ब्लॉग तक पहुँचे, जब तक कि वह अकेला न हो या किसी ऐसी जगह या परिस्थिति में न हो जहाँ गोपनीयता हो।

हमने इस सप्ताह इस ब्लॉग के हेडर के हेडर टेक्स्ट में इसे स्पष्ट किया है।

एक उदाहरण के तौर पर, आइए नीचे दी गई छवि को लें। एक संस्करण को सेंसर नहीं किया गया है जबकि दूसरे को सेंसर किया गया है। सवाल यह है कि क्या छवि को सेंसर किया जाना चाहिए? इसका जवाब एक जोरदार 'नहीं' है! छवि में कुछ भी गलत नहीं है, ऐसा कुछ भी नहीं है जो इसे सेंसर किए जाने के योग्य बनाता हो। यह एक ऐसे आदमी को दिखाता है जो गर्व से अपने विशाल लिंग को प्रदर्शित करता है, भले ही उसके जैसे संपन्न न होने वाले पुरुषों को भी अपने औसत आकार या छोटे लिंग का जश्न मनाने का समान अधिकार हो।

प्रदर्शनकारी हो या न हो, कुछ पुरुष अपने 'जन्मदिन के सूट' में रहकर अपनी नग्नता प्रदर्शित करने में सहज होते हैं और उन्हें खुद को नग्न रूप में लोगों के सामने प्रदर्शित करने और बाकी मानव सभ्यता के साथ अपने 'मुकुट रत्नों' को देखने का स्वाभाविक अधिकार है।

कुछ कट्टरपंथियों द्वारा एक अल्पसंख्यक तथाकथित तर्क दिया जाता है कि शिथिल लिंग को प्रदर्शित करना ठीक है क्योंकि यह यौन नहीं है, लेकिन इस तरह के मामले में, ऐसा कोई तरीका नहीं है जिससे यह आदमी अपने लटके हुए लिंग की पूरी लंबाई को बिना पूरी तरह उत्तेजित हुए प्रदर्शित कर सके।

और वैसे भी, छवि का सौंदर्य और कलात्मक मूल्य कैद हो जाता है क्योंकि उसका हाथ उसके पूरी तरह से उत्तेजित लिंग के शाफ्ट पर मजबूत पकड़ के द्वारा उसके गर्व को पूरा करता है। इसके अलावा, उसके चेहरे पर गर्व से भरा बाहरी भाव देखें, हालाँकि अंदर से वह यौन रूप से उत्तेजित महसूस कर रहा होगा, जो कि कोई समस्या नहीं है क्योंकि हममें से कुछ मनुष्यों में सेक्स ड्राइव एक विकासवादी प्राकृतिक ड्राइव है। आनंद लें।

पी.एस.: लड़के के स्वाभाविक रूप से विशाल लिंग की सराहना करने के लिए बिना सेंसर किए गए संस्करण को बड़े पैमाने पर देखें। और आप देख सकते हैं कि सेंसर किया गया संस्करण कितना अनावश्यक और परेशान करने वाला है।

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yah pariyojana isalie zarooree thee kyonki kuchh aagantuk achaanak un badalaavon se achambhit ho gae the jinhen mainne aur mere doston ne is saptaah is blog "vhaat iz e main?" par laagoo karana shuroo kiya tha. yah is blog par purush nagnata aur samalaingik purushon kee kaamukata ko sensaraship ya anumati dene mein pashchimee maanakon ko apanaane kee hamaaree ichchha ke sambandh mein hai, isake alaava mere nyood men aart blog par nagn purushon aur samalaingik seks kee spasht chhaviyon ke alaava, jise kuchh aagantuk kahate hain ki yah unake lie bahut mazedaar aur manoranjak hai.

ham jaanate hain ki ab isaka matalab hai ki aap is blog mein keval apanee gopaneeyata ke samay hee pravesh kar sakate hain, lekin yahee hamaara mool iraada bhee tha. hamaara kabhee bhee yah iraada nahin tha ki koee bhee vyakti is blog tak pahunche, jab tak ki vah akela na ho ya kisee aisee jagah ya paristhiti mein na ho jahaan gopaneeyata ho.

hamane is saptaah is blog ke hedar ke hedar tekst mein ise spasht kiya hai.

ek udaaharan ke taur par, aaie neeche dee gaee chhavi ko len. ek sanskaran ko sensar nahin kiya gaya hai jabaki doosare ko sensar kiya gaya hai. savaal yah hai ki kya chhavi ko sensar kiya jaana chaahie? isaka javaab ek joradaar nahin hai! chhavi mein kuchh bhee galat nahin hai, aisa kuchh bhee nahin hai jo ise sensar kie jaane ke yogy banaata ho. yah ek aise aadamee ko dikhaata hai jo garv se apane vishaal ling ko pradarshit karata hai, bhale hee usake jaise sampann na hone vaale purushon ko bhee apane ausat aakaar ya chhote ling ka jashn manaane ka samaan adhikaar ho. 

pradarshanakaaree ho ya na ho, kuchh purush apane janmadin ke soot mein rahakar apanee nagnata pradarshit karane mein sahaj hote hain aur unhen khud ko nagn roop mein logon ke saamane pradarshit karane aur baakee maanav sabhyata ke saath apane mukut ratnon ko dekhane ka svaabhaavik adhikaar hai. 

kuchh kattarapanthiyon dvaara ek alpasankhyak tathaakathit tark diya jaata hai ki shithil ling ko pradarshit karana theek hai kyonki yah yaun nahin hai, lekin is tarah ke maamale mein, aisa koee tareeka nahin hai jisase yah aadamee apane latake hue ling kee pooree lambaee ko bina pooree tarah uttejit hue pradarshit kar sake. 

aur vaise bhee, chhavi ka saundary aur kalaatmak mooly kaid ho jaata hai kyonki usaka haath usake pooree tarah se uttejit ling ke shaapht par majaboot pakad ke dvaara usake garv ko poora karata hai. isake alaava, usake chehare par garv se bhara baaharee bhaav dekhen, haalaanki andar se vah yaun roop se uttejit mahasoos kar raha hoga, jo ki koee samasya nahin hai kyonki hamamen se kuchh manushyon mein seks draiv ek vikaasavaadee praakrtik draiv hai. aanand len.

pee.es.: ladake ke svaabhaavik roop se vishaal ling kee saraahana karane ke lie bina sensar kie gae sanskaran ko bade paimaane par dekhen. aur aap dekh sakate hain ki sensar kiya gaya sanskaran kitana anaavashyak aur pareshaan karane vaala hai.

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This project was necessitated because some visitors are suddenly dumbfounded with the changes me and my friends started implementing this week on this blog "What is a Man?" This is in regard to our desire to adopt Western standards in censorship or allowance of male nudity and queer and gay men's sexuality on this blog in addition to explicit images of nude men and gay sex on my Nude Men Art blog which some visitors say is loads of fun and entertainment for them. 

We know that now this means you can enter this blog only during times of your privacy but that was our original intent too. We never meant anyone to access this blog unless they were alone or were in a place or circumstance of privacy.

We have explained this in the header text of this blog's header this week.

As an example, let's  take the below image. One version is not censored while the other one is. The question is, should the image be censored? The answer is a resounding 'No'! There is nothing wrong about the image, nothing that deserves it to be censored. It shows a man who proudly displays his huge cock even if men who are not as well-endowed as him has the same right too to celebrate their average sized or small cocks. 

Exhibitionist or not, some men are comfortable to display their nudity by being in their 'birthday suit' and they have a NATURAL right to display themselves naked to the public and share the sight of their 'crown jewels' with the rest of human civilization. 

There's a minority so-called argument by some prudes that it is okay to display flaccid penises because that is not sexual but in a case like this, there's no way this guy can exhibit the total length of his well-hung dick without having it at a full erection. 

And anyways, the aesthetic and artistic value of the image is captured as his hand complements his pride by the strong grip he has on the shaft of his fully erect member. Plus, see the proud external expression on his face although internally he might be feeling sexually aroused which is not a problem at all as the sex drive is an evolutionary natural drive in some of us humans. Enjoy.

PS: View large the uncensored version to truly appreciate the guy's naturally humongous phallus. And you can see how unnecessary and irritating visually the censored version is.

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މި މަޝްރޫޢު ކޮންމެހެން ޖެހުނީ އަޅުގަނޑާއި އަޅުގަނޑުގެ ރައްޓެހިން މި ހަފްތާގައި މި ބްލޮގުގައި "ވަޓް އިޒް އަ މޭން" ގައި ތަންފީޒު ކުރަން ފެށި ބަދަލުތަކާ ގުޅިގެން ބައެއް ޒިޔާރަތްތެރިން ކުއްލިއަކަށް ބޯހަރުވެފައި ތިބުމުންނެވެ. މިއީ މި ބްލޮގުގައި ފިރިހެން ބަރަހަނާކަމާއި ކުއީރް އަދި ގޭ ފިރިހެނުންގެ ޖިންސީ ގުޅުން ހިންގުމަށް ސެންސަރު ނުވަތަ ހުއްދަ ދިނުމުގައި ހުޅަނގުގެ މިންގަނޑުތައް ތައާރަފް ކުރުމުގެ އިތުރުން އަހަރެންގެ ނިއުޑް މެން އާޓް ބްލޮގުގައި ބަރަހަނާ ފިރިހެނުންނާއި ގޭ ޖިންސީ ގުޅުން ހިންގުމުގެ ސާފު ތަސްވީރުތައް ގެންގުޅެން ބޭނުންވުމާ ގުޅިގެންނެވެ.

އަޅުގަނޑުމެންނަށް އެނގޭ މިހާރު މިކަމުގެ މާނައަކީ މި ބްލޮގަށް ވަދެވޭނީ ހަމައެކަނި ތިމާގެ ޕްރައިވެސީ ވަގުތުތަކުގައި ނަމަވެސް އެއީ އަޅުގަނޑުމެންގެ އަސްލު ނިޔަތެއް ވެސް މެއެވެ. އަޅުގަނޑުމެން ދުވަހަކުވެސް މާނައެއް ނުކުރަން މި ބްލޮގަށް ވަދެވޭނެ މީހަކު އެކަނި ނުވަތަ ޕްރައިވެސީގެ ތަނެއްގައި ނުވަތަ ހާލަތެއްގައި ހުރެގެން ނޫނީ.

މިކަން އަޅުގަނޑުމެން މި ހަފްތާގައި މި ބްލޮގުގެ ހެޑަރުގެ ހެޑަރ ޓެކްސްޓްގައި ބަޔާންކޮށްފައިވެއެވެ.

މިސާލެއްގެ ގޮތުން ތިރީގައިވާ ތަސްވީރު ނަގާލަމާ ހިނގާށެވެ. އެއް ވަރޝަން ސެންސަރު ނުކުރެވޭއިރު އަނެއް ވަރޝަން ސެންސަރު ކުރެވެއެވެ. ސުވާލަކީ އެ ތަސްވީރު ސެންސަރު ކުރަންވީ ހެއްޔެވެ؟ ޖަވާބަކީ ގުގުމާލާ 'ނޫން' އެކެވެ! އެ ތަސްވީރުގައި އެއްވެސް ގޯހެއް، ސެންސަރު ކުރަން ހައްގު އެއްވެސް ކަމެއް ނެތެވެ. އެއީ އޭނާ ފަދަ މުއްސަނދި ނޫން ފިރިހެނުންނަށް ވެސް އެމީހުންގެ އެވްރެޖް ސައިޒުގެ ނުވަތަ ކުދި ކުކުޅު ފާހަގަ ކުރުމުގެ ހައްގު ލިބިގެން ދިޔަ ނަމަވެސް ފަޚުރުވެރިކަމާއެކު އޭނާގެ ބޮޑު ބުޅަލެއް ދައްކާލާ މަންޒަރެކެވެ.

މައުރަޒުވެރިން ކަމުގައި ވިޔަސް ނުވިޔަސް ބައެއް ފިރިހެނުންނަށް 'އުފަންދުވަހުގެ ސޫޓު' ގައި ތިބެގެން ބަރަހަނާކަން ދައްކާލުމަށް ފަސޭހަވެ، އާންމުންނަށް ބަރަހަނާކޮށް ދައްކާލުމުގެ ގުދުރަތީ ހައްގެއް ލިބިގެންވާއިރު، އެމީހުންގެ 'ތާޖު ޖަވާހިރު' ގެ މަންޒަރު އިންސާނީ ޙަޟާރަތުގެ އެހެން ފަރާތްތަކާ ހިއްސާކުރުމުގެ ގުދުރަތީ ހައްގެއް ލިބިގެންވެއެވެ.

ބައެއް ޕްރޫޑްސް އިން މައިނޯރިޓީ ސޯކޯލްޑް އާގިއުމެންޓެއް އެބައޮތް ކަމަށާއި އެއީ ޖިންސީ ކަމެއް ނޫން ކަމަށް ވާތީ ފްލެކްސިޑް ޕެނިސަސް ޑިސްޕްލޭ ކުރުމަކީ އޯކޭ ކަމެއް ކަމަށެވެ.

އަދި ކޮންމެ ގޮތެއްވިޔަސް، އެ ތަސްވީރުގެ ރީތިކަމާއި ފަންނުވެރިކަމުގެ އަގު އަތުލައިގަންނަނީ، އޭނާގެ އަތުން އޭނާގެ ފަޚުރުވެރިކަން ފުރިހަމަކޮށްދެނީ، އޭނާގެ ފުރިހަމައަށް ތެދުވެފައިވާ މެމްބަރުގެ ޝަފްޓްގައި އޭނާގެ ވަރުގަދަ ހިފަހައްޓައިގެންނެވެ. ޕްލަސް، އޭނާގެ މޫނުމަތީގައި ފަޚުރުވެރި ބޭރުފުށުގެ ކުލަވަރު ފެންނަ ނަމަވެސް އެތެރެއިން އޭނާއަށް ޖިންސީ ގޮތުން ޝައުގުވެރިކަން އުފެދިދާނެ ކަމަށާއި އެއީ އެއްގޮތަކަށްވެސް މައްސަލައެއް ނޫން ކަމަށާއި ޖިންސީ ޝައުގުވެރިކަމަކީ އަހަރެމެންގެ ތެރެއިން ބައެއް އިންސާނުންގެ ތެރޭގައި އީވޮލޫޝަނަރީ ނެޗުރަލް ޑްރައިވެއް ކަމަށެވެ. މަޖާ ކޮށްލާ.

ޕީއެސް: ވިއު ލަރޖް ދަ އަންސެންސަރޑް ވާޝަން ޓު ޓްރޫލީ އެޕްރިޝިއޭޓް ދަ ގައިސް ނެޗުރަލީ ހޫމޮންގޯސް ފަލަސް. އަދި ސެންސަރު ކުރެވިފައިވާ ވާޝަން ވިޝުއަލް ގޮތުން ކިހާ ކޮންމެހެން ބޭނުން ނުވާ އަދި ރުޅިގަދަ ކަމެއްކަން ވެސް ފެނެ އެވެ.  

 

Afghan women forced to make do with AI friends ‘to give yourself fake hope’ under oppressive Taliban rule

Women in Afghanistan have been forced to turn to artificial intelligence for friendship after the Taliban government restricted their rights across the country.

Lima, an 18-year-old from rural Afghanistan, said she treats AI as a friend to help her get through the days. Asked by the BBC how she spends her mornings, she said: “Reading novel, or chatting with AI, usually, to empty every single word of me - to talk, ask questions, or simply treat as a friend.

“The AI app makes a character of your favourite idol. All the famous people you know you can talk with them or say anything you want. You can ask them questions. You can give yourself a fake hope and make them your friend or family.”

The Taliban swiftly regained control of Afghanistan in 2021 after the US withdrew its last troops from the country. Despite initially declaring that women would be allowed to work and study, the Taliban government brought in restrictions that have affected nearly all aspects of daily life for women. READ MORE

Designer apologises for ‘discomfort’ caused by fashion show at India ski resort during Ramadan

Jammu and Kashmir’s chief minister says organisers failed to respect local sensitivities.

Kashmir’s top cleric Mirwaiz Umar Farooq called the fashion show “outrageous” and “obscene”.

Kashmir, the Muslim-majority northernmost region of India, is currently observing the holy month of Ramadan, a period of 30 days when Muslims across the world fast and observe prayers. READ MORE

Couple who set record for longest kiss in 2013 have now separated

Ekkachai and Laksana Tiranarat kissed for 58 hours and 35 minutes in 2013. READ MORE

Instagram in 2018 banned account promoting body positivity despite other accounts posting similar images

The MeatZine publish a calendar to redefine what it is to be a sexy gay man.

This isn’t the first account to have its account suspended after the Warwick Rowers and the Greeks Come True accounts were also removed earlier this year. READ MORE

 

Queer observations #52

By Banyan

(NOTE: This is a true incident from Banyan's life that happened this year. He has decided to contribute and allow me to republish any material from his Deviant Art gallery and Facebook page)

 

(View large this AI image generated by Banyan and also the favorites and badges and comments and views he received for this picture and true incident from this link)

I met him earlier this month through a friend who said he had requested to meet me because I was his online hero. When we met, I was immediately taken by his personality and looks. He was animated, and his story touched my heart.

On our next meeting, I gave him a book I thought he’d like, at my friend's suggestion. That night, he came to my house with my friend, bringing me a valuable book and several pieces of artwork. Before leaving, he hugged me and whispered, “I love you.” I was both shocked and pleased.

The next day, he left for rehab. I asked my friend to keep me updated and, knowing he had access to his phone, I messaged him. I found myself frequently checking for his replies. My friend told me the early days of rehab were tough, but I still longed to hear from him. When he finally messaged back, I felt relieved. I sent him quotes I thought he’d enjoy, but his delayed responses made me anxious. He later told my friend he wanted time to process my messages before replying.

Eventually, he responded to each one, liking all of them. In one message, he explicitly said that, even if it was too soon, he wanted to tell me he loved me. That made me happy. I told him I loved him too but wanted to do so in a way that wouldn’t interfere with his recovery.

He later came to Paris due to a family emergency. I didn’t reach out, but the next morning, he wanted to meet me and our mutual friend. That day, he expressed that he was hurt I hadn’t checked in, which made me feel he valued my presence. Before heading home, he hugged me. That evening, he invited me to an early dinner, choosing the best restaurant and making a fuss about the venue. He ordered a Valentine’s special—a shared meal—joking about causing a scandal and ensuring I was enjoying myself. Before we left, he gave me a balloon.

That night, after consulting my friend, I bought him chocolates and a plant. The next day, I messaged him about the gifts, and he said he’d pick them up. But then he disappeared for four days, leaving me distressed, wondering if I had done something wrong. Finally, I told him I was going to give the gifts away, and he replied that he had been busy but wanted to meet after returning from a rehab in a South Asian country, where he was settling his rehab arrangements. Shortly after, he messaged me again, joking around and asking to meet.

When we met, I asked him directly about his feelings and whether he saw something between us. Initially, he pretended not to understand, saying what he felt was purely platonic. But when I pressed further, he admitted he did have feelings but couldn’t pursue them because of where he was in life. He also revealed he had never been emotionally involved with anyone before. We parted on good terms, but I decided not to invest any more energy in the situation—it had been exhausting.

Despite everything, I feel a sense of peace. Facing this challenge while weaning off my meds, I was able to handle it with the support of my friends, spiritual practices, and mindfulness.

Greeks Come True Calendar 2017 - Making of Movie Trailer

WATCH: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5aDxy08qgjg

(Check out Greeks Come True Calendar 2019 Making of Movie Trailer images here: https://jjgayland.blogspot.com/2024/07/greeks-come-true-calendar-2019-making.html).

 

Trans women transferred to men’s prisons despite rulings against Trump’s order

Incarcerated trans women report being groped by male guards and suicidal thoughts: ‘I’m punished for existing’. READ MORE

Could Trump cut back aid to Lesotho that is intended to promote LGBT rights?

But his most pointed remark was about Lesotho, which he said was a country "nobody has ever heard of" despite receiving $8m (£6.2m) to promote LGBT rights.

The government there quickly responded.

"To my surprise, 'the country that nobody has heard of' is the country where the US has a permanent mission," Foreign Affairs Minister Lejone Mpotjoane told the BBC. READ MORE

Muhsin Hendricks - did the world's first (openly) gay (Muslim) Imam die for nothing?

WATCH: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gzvIE6vS7z4

Happy Ramadan to the Muslim queer community

Muslim and Gay: How Muslims Handle Homosexuality 🏳️‍🌈

WATCH: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHQrQCqp7x8